I always hear people say that being a mom is the toughest, yet most rewarding job in the world. For me it is definitely tough at times and definitely rewarding beyond my wildest dreams. The looks of admiration, support, and love I get from my son are priceless. The pride he exhibits when he’s done something, anything, is precious. The hugs and kisses and other signs of affection he shows are the best things in the world. Taking care of him and teaching him gives me a greater purpose than I’ve ever known. I just hope that when he grows up, he remembers on some level all that he’s been given. I don’t feel like I’ve sacrificed much, although as parents, we all make sacrifices, and I don’t expect anything in return. I just hope that he always knows how much I love him and that he appreciates it.
I have always really appreciated my mom. Obviously as a mother now myself, I understand her more and understand where she’s been coming from all these years. I like to spend time with her and make a point to thank her for her thoughtfulness. I like to make sure she feels ok and if she needs anything from me. I take my son to see her and cheer her up when she’s not feeling so great. She’s a great mom and a great friend and I make sure she knows it.
For all you moms out there, do you feel appreciated? I know most of our kids are too young to really show it, but do your husbands show appreciation? Do you think your children will learn from his example (good or bad)?
What about your moms? Do you show your appreciation? Not that cards and gifts are a necessity, but they are definitely a nice gesture on days such as Mother’s Day. Last year, I made a Photo Calendar on Shutterfly for my mother-in-law. She really loved it so I decided to do it again this year and also to make one for my mom. What wouldn’t they like about 12 months of pictures of their adorable grandson?